The Reasons Why Losers Lose and Winners Win

I haven’t seen a rational being that ever love to be a loser, instead everybody wants to be winners and we all want to be successful.

I have met so many people, but recently a group of people posed a question. The question is ‘why do so many people struggle to be successful and end up no making it?’ The answer I gave them was that success comes from within i.e. how you think, your focus and how you live each moment.

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Are you a blogger, entrepreneur, businessman or anything, here are few ideas on why winners win and losers lose.

Losers fail once and quit. Winners fail a thousand times and eventually succeed.




Losers look for success at the finish line. Winners experience success along the way.




Losers work to make money. Winners work to make a difference.




Losers seek respect. Winners earn respect.




Losers stare at the problem. Winners look around for the solution.




Losers review options. Winners act on decisions.




Losers attempt to conquer the world in one shot. Winners add up all their small victories.




Losers expect certain outcomes. Winners prepare themselves for the unexpected.




Losers are paid for their time. Winners are paid for their results.




Losers buy things. Winners build things.




Losers see things they don’t understand and get discouraged. Winners see things they don’t understand and get curious.




Losers talk. Winners communicate.




Losers let things happen. Winners make things happen.




Losers want to get ahead of others. Winners help others get ahead too.




Losers hangout with losers. Winners hangout with winners who are more successful than they are.




Losers label themselves as experts. Winners know there is still much to learn.




Losers over-sell. Winners over-deliver.




Losers frown. Winners smile.




Losers think winners are lucky. Winners realize the harder they work the luckier they are.




Losers follow other people’s definitions of success. Winners define their own success.




Losers escape fears. Winners face fears.




Losers waste their free time (watching TV). Winners use their free time (learning or experiencing something new).




Losers see the unknown as a risk. Winners see constant familiarity as a risk.




Losers live in the past. Winners live life now based on lessons learned in the past.

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